How to Use Masturbators — A Complete Guide
How to Use Masturbators — A Complete Guide
Male masturbators are one of the fastest-growing categories in the adult toy market, and for good reason. The experience difference between a quality masturbator and manual masturbation is significant — different textures, suction, vibration, heating, and realistic internal structures produce sensations that the hand simply can't replicate. Whether you're looking at your first toy or wanting to understand what separates different categories from each other, this guide covers everything.
Quick links:
- Types of masturbators explained
- How to use a masturbator step by step
- Lubricant — non-negotiable
- Our top Melbourne picks
- Cleaning and care
- How to choose
- Frequently asked questions
Types of Masturbators Explained
Manual strokers and sleeves
The simplest and most affordable masturbator category. A sleeve or tube with a textured internal channel, held and moved manually during use. The CRAZY BULL ROSSI Vagina Stroker with tightening rings is an example — the adjustable rings allow the user to control the tightness of the grip around the internal channel, varying the intensity of the sensation. Manual strokers are the starting point for most men trying masturbators for the first time.
Best for: First-time masturbator users, men who want a simple, affordable option, travel
Vibrating masturbators
Masturbators with a built-in vibrating motor that adds vibration to the internal texture. The EnLust Ayumi Vibrating Vagina Stroker is a compact, affordable example — realistic texture with a bullet vibrator that adds vibration during use. Vibration significantly changes the sensation profile compared to texture alone, and many men who find standard strokers mildly pleasant find vibrating versions dramatically more effective.
Best for: Men who want more stimulation than texture alone, a step up from basic strokers
Automated masturbators
Motorised devices with stroking, sucking, or vibrating mechanisms that operate automatically — no manual movement required. These are the premium end of the masturbator category. The Streetgirls Dual Motor Sensation Pulse uses dual motors for vibration at multiple points simultaneously; the Streetgirls Sensation Pulse Doggy is a realistic doggy-position device with vibrating, sucking, and moaning functions. The experience gap between a basic sleeve and a premium automated masturbator is substantial.
Best for: Men who want a hands-free or hands-minimal experience, maximum stimulation, realistic simulation
Realistic masturbators
Masturbators designed to closely replicate the physical appearance and feel of anatomical features — realistic vagina, anus, or mouth openings with skin-like exterior materials and realistic internal textures. The PDX Wet Bussies Super Bangin Butt is an example — a realistic anal stroker with a detailed exterior and textured internal channel.
Best for: Men who prefer a realistic aesthetic alongside the functional experience
Torso and full masturbators
Larger format masturbators that replicate a torso, backside, or full-body section in life-like skin materials. The Streetgirls Doggy format falls into this category. These provide a more immersive physical experience than handheld sleeves but require more storage space and more involved cleaning.
Best for: Maximum immersion, complete sensory experience
How to Use a Masturbator Step by Step
Step 1 — Warm it up (optional but recommended)
Cold masturbators feel clinical. Running warm water over the outside of the toy for 1–2 minutes before use raises its temperature to approximately body temperature, which significantly improves the sensation. Some premium masturbators have built-in heating functions that do this automatically.
Step 2 — Apply lubricant generously
This is not optional. Using a masturbator without lubricant produces friction rather than pleasure — the textured interior needs to slide freely against the skin. Apply water-based lubricant both inside the entrance of the masturbator and to the penis before insertion. More lube than you think you need. Reapply if sessions last more than a few minutes. Full guide in the lubricant section below.
Step 3 — Insert slowly
Insert the penis slowly into the masturbator opening. Most masturbators have a textured entrance designed to create an initial sensation. Don't rush this stage — the entrance sensation is part of the experience.
Step 4 — Experiment with grip and pressure
For manual strokers, the grip pressure you apply to the outside of the toy significantly affects the internal sensation. A firmer grip creates more contact between the internal texture and the penis. Some strokers have adjustable tightening mechanisms (like the ROSSI's rings) — experiment with these to find the pressure that works best.
Step 5 — Vary stroke length and speed
Full strokes (the full length of the internal channel) feel different from shorter strokes focused on the head. Slow strokes allow more time with each texture section; fast strokes build sensation more quickly. Varying between the two produces a more interesting and more effective experience than maintaining constant speed and depth.
Step 6 — For automated masturbators — hands-off
Automated masturbators do the work. After insertion, let the device's mechanisms operate. Many men find that lying back and allowing the device to work without additional manual movement produces different and often more intense sensations than active manual use. Experiment with position — lying on your back, sitting, or kneeling all produce different angles and sensations.
Step 7 — Temperature and suction effects
If your masturbator has suction function (many automated models do), covering and uncovering the air hole at the end of the toy creates a vacuum effect around the penis that significantly intensifies the sensation. Experiment with how much coverage produces the right level of suction for you.
Step 8 — Use with a sex machine
Compatible masturbators can be used with Hismith sex machines via the KlicLok masturbator adapter, converting the manual experience into a fully hands-free, machine-powered one. This is the most intense masturbator experience available. Browse our sex machine range for compatible machines and adapters.
Lubricant — Non-Negotiable
The single most important thing you can do to improve masturbator use is use enough lubricant. A dry or under-lubed masturbator produces friction. A properly lubed one produces the smooth, skin-like sensation the toy is designed to deliver.
What to use
Water-based lubricant is the universally compatible choice — safe with all masturbator materials including the skin-like TPE/TPR/Cyberskin materials used in realistic masturbators. Silicone lubricants can degrade these materials over time and should be avoided with realistic skin-material toys. ABS plastic masturbators can use silicone lube safely but water-based is always the safe default.
How much
More than you think. Apply a generous amount inside the entrance of the masturbator and to the head of the penis before insertion. For sessions longer than a few minutes, you'll likely need to reapply — keep lube accessible during use. Browse our full lubricant range.
Our Top Masturbator Picks — Available Now in Melbourne
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Streetgirls Dual Motor Sensation Pulse — $179.99
Our premium masturbator recommendation. Dual independent motors deliver vibration at two separate points simultaneously — the head and the base of the shaft — creating a layered vibration experience that single-motor toys can't match. Realistic flesh tone, body-safe materials, USB rechargeable, multiple vibration modes. For men who want the most stimulating vibrating masturbator experience available without a full sex machine.
Dual independent motors • Multiple vibration modes • Realistic texture • USB rechargeable • Premium
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Streetgirls Sensation Pulse Doggy Masturbator — $159.99
A realistic doggy-position masturbator with vibrating, sucking, and moaning audio functions — a genuinely immersive format that goes beyond what a handheld sleeve delivers. The physical positioning, combined with suction and vibration, creates a distinct experience from standard strokers. USB rechargeable, flesh tone, realistic internal texture. For men who want maximum immersion.
Doggy position • Vibrating + sucking + moaning • USB rechargeable • Realistic • Immersive
EnLust Ayumi Vibrating Vagina Stroker — $39.99
The best-value vibrating masturbator in our range. Compact, realistic vagina design with a bullet vibrator for added internal vibration. At $39.99 it's the ideal first masturbator for anyone who wants to try the category before investing in a premium device. Easy to use, realistic texture, flesh tone.
Vibrating bullet • Realistic texture • Compact • Easy to use • Best value entry point
PDX Wet Bussies Super Bangin Butt — $89.99
A realistic anal stroker from PDX's Wet Bussies range — detailed realistic exterior in brown skin tone with a textured internal anal channel. The PDX Wet series is known for realistic skin texture that closely approximates the feel of real skin. For men who prefer an anal entry point over vaginal, or who want to vary between the two with different toys.
Realistic anal design • Brown skin tone • Textured internal channel • PDX quality • Realistic exterior
Crazy Bull Rossi Vagina Stroker with Tightening Rings — $19.99
The most affordable masturbator in our range with a genuinely useful feature — adjustable tightening rings that allow the user to control how tight the grip is around the internal channel. This adjustability gives you more control over intensity than a fixed-channel stroker. An excellent first masturbator at a very accessible price point. Flesh tone, realistic opening.
Adjustable tightening rings • Control your grip • Realistic opening • Flesh tone • Best value
Cleaning and Care
After every use — no exceptions
Clean masturbators thoroughly after every single use. Residual lubricant, body fluids, and moisture left inside create conditions for bacterial growth, particularly in the warm, enclosed internal channel. Clean immediately after use rather than leaving it.
Cleaning method
For non-motorised sleeves and strokers: rinse thoroughly under warm running water, turning inside out if possible to access the internal texture. Apply toy cleaner or mild anti-bacterial soap, work it through the internal channel, rinse thoroughly, and allow to air dry completely before storing. A small drying rod or rolling the toy in a clean cloth can help dry the internal channel.
For motorised masturbators: check the waterproofing rating. Fully waterproof models can be rinsed under running water. Non-waterproof models should be cleaned with a damp cloth and toy cleaner externally, and the internal channel cleaned with a damp cloth on a long implement — keeping water away from electronics and charging ports.
Powdering skin-material toys
Toys made from skin-like materials (TPE, TPR, Cyberskin) can become sticky after repeated use and washing. Applying a small amount of cornstarch powder (not talc) after cleaning and drying restores the smooth, skin-like texture and prevents stickiness. This is standard maintenance for realistic material toys.
Storage
Store clean and dry in a clean pouch or the original packaging. Don't store skin-material toys in contact with each other or with other toys — different materials can react and degrade. Store away from direct sunlight and extreme temperatures.
How to Choose Your First Masturbator
Start simple and affordable
The Crazy Bull Rossi ($19.99) is the lowest-risk entry point — genuinely functional with an interesting tightening feature at a price that makes it easy to try without commitment. The EnLust Ayumi ($39.99) adds vibration for the next step up.
If you want vibration from the start
The EnLust Ayumi at $39.99 is the right choice — a vibrating masturbator at an accessible price. For a significant step up, the Streetgirls Dual Motor Sensation Pulse at $179.99 delivers a genuinely premium experience.
If you want maximum immersion
The Streetgirls Sensation Pulse Doggy at $159.99 — the realistic format, vibration, suction, and audio functions create the most immersive experience in our range outside of a full sex machine.
If you want realistic aesthetics
The PDX Wet Bussies Super Bangin Butt at $89.99 for an anal entry, or the EnLust Ayumi for a vaginal entry, both prioritise realistic appearance and texture alongside the functional experience.
Frequently Asked Questions
What's the difference between a stroker and a masturbator?
The terms are largely interchangeable. "Stroker" typically refers to simpler manual sleeves; "masturbator" is a broader term that includes both manual and automated devices. Both describe toys used for penile stimulation.
Do masturbators need batteries?
Manual strokers don't require any power — they're purely physical. Vibrating masturbators use either batteries or USB recharging. All our vibrating options recommend USB rechargeable models, which are more economical and typically have better motors than battery-powered alternatives.
What lubricant should I use?
Water-based lubricant — universally compatible with all masturbator materials. Apply generously before use and reapply during extended sessions. Never use oil-based products with any toy made from skin-like materials.
How realistic is the sensation compared to sex?
This varies significantly by product. Basic sleeves feel clearly different from real sex. Premium automated masturbators with heating, suction, and realistic texture produce sensations that are genuinely surprising in how closely they replicate the real experience. The gap between the cheapest and most expensive masturbators is substantial.
Can masturbators be used with a partner?
Yes. A partner can use a masturbator on you during foreplay or mutual masturbation. Many couples incorporate masturbators into partnered play. Some couples use them simultaneously for mutual masturbation sessions.
How quickly does delivery to Melbourne take?
Same-day dispatch before 2pm AEST. Melbourne metro 1–3 business days in completely plain unmarked packaging.
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